Watch: Death of The Pastor’s Wife: What Happened to Mica Miller, John Paul Miller
Content warning: This story discusses suicide.
Mica Miller put faith before everything—including, according to friends and family, her own safety.
“Out of all of us, she was the most strong in her faith,” her sister Destinee Barrientos shared in the new Netflix docuseries Death of the Pastor’s Wife, now streaming. “Mica knew her calling: ‘I’m going to be in the ministry and I’m going to help people.'”
And now Mica’s loved ones are wondering what more they could have done to help her.
On April 27, 2024, Mica’s body was found in North Carolina’s Lumber River State Park, hours away from the 30-year-old’s home in Myrtle Beach, S.C.
“My wife has passed away,” her estranged husband John-Paul Miller, then the longtime pastor of Solid Rock Church in Myrtle Beach, told congregants at his Sunday service the next day. He called Mica’s death “self-induced.”
Her five siblings, all of whom participated in the Netflix series, weren’t so sure—and they didn’t want authorities to assume anything, either.
“They said, ‘We’re doing everything we can, make sure we look under every rock,'” Mica’s sister Sierra Francis recounted in the doc. “They reassured us there was going to be some justice.”
Mica’s death was subsequently ruled a suicide, a decision “based on surveillance footage, interviews, physical evidence and the examination of the North Carolina Medical Examiner’s Office,” according to a May 7, 2024, statement from the Robeson County Sheriff’s Department.
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Her brother Nate Francis “just could not accept it,” he said in the series. And neither could the internet sleuths who took up the family’s cause, which was to hold John-Paul accountable for what happened to Mica.
In May 2024, John-Paul’s lawyer Russell Long said in a statement that “unfounded rumors and false accusations” had been circulating online in the wake of Mica’s death and his client “refutes any report that suggests he ever abused his wife.” Moreover, he said, the determination that Mica died by suicide “completely exonerates Pastor Miller of any wrongdoing.”
John-Paul, who did not participate in the series, later countered that he was the one person who tried to help Mica, who had a history of mental health struggles.
“I told her family this so many times you can’t imagine,” the now former leader of Solid Rock Church in Myrtle Beach said in July 2024 on NewsNation’s Banfield. “I said, ‘If y’all don’t get her lithium, she’s gonna commit suicide.'”
Oxygen.com reached out to John Paul’s attorney about the allegations raised in the docuseries, but has not yet heard back.
Here is what to know about the heartbreaking story behind Netflix’s Death of the Pastor’s Wife:
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(E! and Oxygen are both part of Versant Media)
If you or someone you know needs help, call 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call the network, previously known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, at 800-273-8255, text HOME to 741741 or visit SpeakingOfSuicide.com/resources for additional resources.






